If you've been reading lately, you know I've been excited to share more about what I'm learning about ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy). A lot of what ACT does is offer you a way to change your relationship with your thoughts.
Now, I'm guessing that phrasing sounds funny to you, "changing your relationship with your thoughts". What exactly is that? We are not our thoughts. I am not my thoughts. You are not your thoughts. There is more to you and me than what we think. I've recommended the book, "The Happiness Trap" to you in an earlier post. One way that the author, Russ Harris, helps to make this idea, of changing your relationship to your thoughts, more clear is to look at thoughts as a string of words. So, words on a page of a book (or on this blog post) are called text. Words said out loud are called speech. Words in our minds are called thoughts. Thinking this way helps you to see that just like words in a book are not the book, thoughts in our minds are not us. Can you see how this way of looking at thoughts helps create a bit of distance between you and your thoughts? Well, that distance is a powerful way of helping you feel less controlled by what you think at any given moment. Practicing this helps to cultivate more of your observer self, the constant part of you that is more than what you think or feel. Being able to see things with some objectivity helps you make decisions more based on all of you, and what you most value, not just what you are feeling or thinking in the moment. Powerful! Try it, let me know how it works for you. :-)
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